* Avoid starting with a negative- your dating profile should be about the positives that you have to offer as this is your chance to shine and to sell yourself. Mentioning bad dates or how no one wants you or that you’ve been hurt in the past is going to send people straight on to  Read more »

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“You look tired.” You may have meant it in a concerned and loving way, but in her head it just translates as “You look terrible.” No woman wants attention drawn to the bags under her eyes and the lack lustre look of her skin – especially not by a man. And it’s even worse if  Read more »

“Cheer up. It’s only a game.” Huge mistake. It may look like a few guys running after a ball around a field to you, but to him it’s the ultimate demonstration of macho strength, skill and stamina. Men use sport as a way to bond with other men. Supporting a particular team unites them and  Read more »

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Looking at other women What, you know about that?! But we were being subtle! It seems that when a brassy blond in a barely-there-skirt walks into the room, many of us (not me, obviously, but many of my fellow men), pretend to have seen something interesting – a nice chair, perhaps, or a fascinating wall  Read more »

Q: Writing a dating ad is too hard. Should I get my friend to do it? A: By all means. Even if they don’t write it, it’s a good idea to ask your friends for their assessment of your dateable qualities. If they know you well, they may be able to see what you can’t.  Read more »